What To Know in Your 30s

I'm not sure about you but I remember thinking about turning the bit 3-0 and it just seemed like it was going to be such a huge change in my life.  Having gone thru it now (I'm currently 33)  I can say with confidence, it is not as big of a change as we all think.  Yes it's true turning 30 comes with many feelings and thoughts, one of them being fear.  Fear of not having things figured out, not being where we want to be or thought you would be and not knowing what to do about it.

I can tell you that you are not alone in those feelings but also that you have nothing to worry about.  Our 20s helped us to prepare and be ready for our 30s. During our 20s we transform into the person we would like to be. By the time we hit our 30s life feels great, you are more confident, you have built a solid group of friends and know what you really want.  For me my 30s have been the best years in my life so far, not that I haven't dealt with fear or struggles but I definitely feel more confident and know what I want.

If you are already in your 30s or you are about to steps into them, here is a list of things I believe every woman should know.

1. Value Yourself
You are the best person to set the standard for this.  You create your own value and its up to you to raise the bar, never to lower it.  Treat yourself once in a while to something that will bring you joy and happiness.  Learn to value your heart and to protect it.  Be kind to yourself and respect yourself.

2. Build Your Tribe
Relationships are everything.  The people in our life is the most important thing we can have, they are the ones that help us cope with life and what we are faced with.  Value and cherish those people and show that you appreciate what they mean and do for you.  Invest in creating solid relationships that will bring you joy and will make your love for yourself and other grow.

3. There Is Always Time
Just because we are in our 30s doesn't mean we are running out of time.  There is plenty of time to figure out what we really want to do and accomplish in our life, no one has it all figured yet so don't worry it if you don't have a clear idea yet.  It is never too late to learn something or improve something we really want to accomplish.  Learn to manage time and prioritize it in a way that will give you joy and satisfaction in your life.

4. Take Care Of Yourself
It's never too late to start taking care of our selves, whether is our health, or our skin.  Eating healthy, exercising and using serums and moisturizers daily, drinking plenty of water and taking time to just relax and meditate.


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